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Posted by hope on 3/7/2005, 12:14 pm
Me and my girl have been dating close to 2 years and all through this years we've been together happily. I actually was her first love and tried not to do anything that will hurt her. Ofcourse as humans we've had differences couple of times and we work it out within seconds. I know her to be a very jealous girl as she never liked any of my female friends and claimed they never liked her so i avoided my friends for her. I did everything to please her,and i thought she was all mine being that i was her first love. She complained that we dont spend much time together even on the phone but the truth is that i talk to this girl 10 times a day even at work i try to call her.. Her parents wont let her spend the night in my house as they find it disrespectful and i was ok with their decision, My girl is 22 and im 23. This semester i decided to take less classes and spend more time with my gf only for her to come tell me that we should split cos she needed time and space. I pleaded with her, bought her gifts and couldnt stand not being with her anymore so i did everything possible to convince my gf for a chance especially since this is the first time in our relationship one of us had to make such a hard decision but she still told me she needed space and that we should remain friends. A week after she broke up with me a close friend of mine told me she saw her at the mall with another guy holding hands and her family, i confronted her immediately and she claimed they were just friends. The following week i met her in school only to see on her phone screen saver a guys name and her name joined together but she tried to delete it on the spot but 2 weeks later we ran across each other and she gave me a ride home and next to her car stereo were a bunch of pictures with her and this same guy with her sister and the sisters bf, and she still lied that she is just a close friend to the boy. This girl i thought was the best girl on earth, i trusted her and would swear that she could never have done anything stupid as she seemed obsessed with me. While we were together she had given me her cell phone acct password though i never used it, but i was forced to use it to see if she's ignoring everyone like she said only to see that she's talking to this same guy constantly around the clock. They talk for 5 hrs on the phone, she calls him 10 times a day like she used to do to me and yeah the minimum this 2 talk on the phone is 40min.I do not know what they talk about but i do love her so much and dont know what to do. On vals day, she called to tell me how much she loved me and that someday we'll get back together and i wasnt feeling that cos i asked her why not now cos its been 2 months since she said she needed time. Please what should i do.. it hurts me so bad that someone i trusted doesnt seem to be trustworthy, her parents dont seem to help out as she's lied against me to them but i forgive her. I still wonder why someone that claimed to have loved me will breakup with me cos of attention even when i told her i'll give her all the attenion in this world she still wont give me a chance, i used to feel she loved me more than i did to her but it doesnt seem true now, pls i need ur opinions.
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