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Posted by Adrianne The friendship things just dosen't work. It's not an easy thing to cut off all ties but believe me it is the best. I just broke up with someone I was with for three years. He pulled the same shit with the friendship line... "you're my best friend... I can't not have you in my life"... That was over a month ago. We haven't talked since and I'm the better person for it. The pain of trying to be friends and being dissapointed when things don't go the way you would like is SO much worse then the inital pain of cutting off ties completely. Believe me, I feel your pain. I'm 25 and looking to settle down but that doesn't mean I have to settle. Luckily I have a few people in my life that remind me that when I'm having a bad day. One last thing... NEVER put your hopes and dreams into someone else. When it comes down to it you are all you have and are truely the only person you can trust and depend on 100%. If you ever want those hopes and dreams to come true you have to find the confidence within yourself to make them happen.
on 4/4/2005, 8:14 am, in reply to "broken love"
Yeah. It's all bullshit. Guys have a terndency to sugar coat things so that they don't end up on your shit list. To him he is being the good guy by saying he still wants to be friends. Basically what he is really doing is keeping you on the side lines in case the new prospect doesn't work out. Respect yourself and don't let it happen. If he knows he can get away with behavior like that he will do it again if given the chance.
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