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Posted by James My ex-partner and I are still really good mates as we have the same ideas, interests etc- it was just the "relationship" part of us that wasn't there any more. Anyway... my new partner, is totally different and nothing like me in terms of ideas and interests in life... Initially I didn't think this was a problem but as things have progressed I've realised that we would start to disagree about many things and in the long term I wouldn't have anything left to say to her about my day, what I wa doing etc, and visa versa... So I ended it... Now she thinks I am a b*****d and is blaming her whole life situation on me, which isn't really fair.. I'm trying to be the nice guy and have offered everything I have to help her out, but she isn't interested... it's kind of " me as a your girlfriend or nothing"... Sometimes I'm 100% sure I've done the right thing as when we where together something didn't feel right and I think it was the "differences" issues... othertimes I think what an idiot I've been and I should have let out relationship develop and see how it went.. and also how much I miss her.... I am so confused... what should I have done? what should I do now? Leave things as they are and put it down to experience, or try and restore her faith in me?
on 4/15/2005, 7:22 am
Hi,
I recently started a relationship with a fanstatic girl from work , two months after my previous partner broke off our relationship of 7 years...
Circumstances in her life and how I did it, meant that my timing was probably the worst it could have been, but as I tried to explain... what should I have done.
Cheers
James
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