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Posted by Desigirl Anyway Nick, i hope it made sense to u. ps: If u or anyone wants 2 respond to this, plz email me, i dont think im gonna bother bookmarking this msg board.. heaven_to_hell@hotmail.com
on 4/22/2005, 6:40 am, in reply to "what should i do...i love her"
hey nick... It may not seem as though there's a significant age gap. 4 years may not seem alot but u gotta understand that she's going thru her "exciting/dangerous" days rite now. I say u give her space, let her explore and if it was meant to be, she will come back. In the meantime, u should keep urself busy, join the gym, go out, take up some acitivity, perhaps even meet new girls. Remember, when one door closes, another opens, and sometimes u may not notice the opened door cuz ure lost in the one that just closed. No one can predict the future all i can say is stay strong, everything happens or a reason. You may not see the reason rite now but trust me its there. I am actually going through my breakup rite now, he was my only boyfriend, we dated continously for 4 and a half years...he was mroe than a boyfriend, i didnt think of him as anything less than a husband or a soulmate, i was so sure about things. Our future was planned out. Do u realise how many dreams were shattered, how many promises were broken, how many questions remain unanswered? Nick, i know how u feel, sometimes u feel so helpless... The first thing to do is "ACCEPT" the fact that shes gone....Accepting is different then realising... Then ask urself if u wanna let her walk all over u or will u have a voice in this? Lemme tell u a lill secret about girls (maybe guys too) ...If u shower a girl with attention, the second u snatch it away, they start wondering what happened to it, they come chasing after the lsot attention, even if its in an indirect way.
Goodluck.
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