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Posted by Melissa
on 5/12/2005, 5:17 pm, in reply to "........this is really long but i need to get it out and i need some advice"
Ash,
Sweety, if it is this bad now, what makes you think its going to get any better. Don't you see the cycles. He hurts you, apologizes, then does it again. What good is an apology if he keeps repeating the problem? I'm 20 years old and recovering from a horrible relationship and it is hard. But, unfortunately life is hard sometimes. I get support from a counselor and keep busy as much as possible. Easier said than done. When you say you love him, maybe its more of an addiction or infatuation or just being used to him. People do get addicted to each other. Girl, its time to get out of your comfort zone and use all of the social support that you can. THere is abused women social group. Listen to the older and wiser people who have been through it. It might be a good wake-up call. This abusive relationship between the two of you is not love. Love is how you treat somebody just because you have deep respect for that person. I don't see respect. Please help yourself and keep him from hurting you. You are too wonderful for this abuse.
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