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Posted by Jessa on 5/23/2005, 8:07 pm
My fiance and i have been together for almost 7 years. This past winter he asked me to marry him. The wedding is set for next year. We have been living together for over a year and things have been good. Well so i thought. I mean we worked opposite shifts (him at night me during the day) so it was hard to find time to spend together. Other then that everything was fine. About a month ago i came home to find him sitting on the couch in tears. I asked what was wrong and he said that he wasn't happy and he thought he was going to move out. I was totally shocked!!! He was saying that it felt like we were more like friends or roomates then two people in love and getting married. Now i can't say that i didn't see his point but i have always believed that we could get through anything...so why should this be different? Well on top of all that he said that he had met someone else. He said nothing happened that they just talked but he thought he was starting to have feelings for her. I was crushed. Everything i thought i knew about my life came crashing down at that very moment. After a long silence he said he wanted to try and work it out, that he could not throw everything we had away for someone he just met. So we agreed to give it a try. He has since gotten a new job with better hours and things have been going great! I really feel like we might be ok. I guess i really just wanted some opinions on this. Do you think i'm stupid for staying? Has this happened to anyone else before, is this normal? Maybe i just needed to get it all out. Tanks for listening 
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