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Posted by donald on 7/19/2005, 11:12 pm
My ex girlfriend broke up with me for another guy and then wanted us to be friends even after i had called her to let her know that i wouldn't want her to call my phone again until she figures out what she really wanted with her life. She did went ahead and call me 5 days later and i answered the phone so she said she called to find out why i didn't wanna be her friend and that i should be happy for her since she's always happy for me in all my success. I felt very angry and asked her if i broke up with her and started dating another girl right away and asked her to be friends if she would have liked that? and she couldn't say anything only to tell me that the sweet, peaceful and loving relationship we had was never a good one. I felt she said that to hurt me really as i treated this girl like a queen, gave her all she wanted and cos of my working so many hours and going to school i barely hanged out with her on wed, sat, and mondays and she was always complaing that was it. I did ask her if she really meant what she just said that our relationship was bad and that everything wasn't ok in our relationship and she said yes and that was another blow to my face. I felt this girl just called to hurt me so i blew off and told her that i felt she was right that our relationship wasn't a good one that i cheated on her countless time and hung up the phone on her. She kept calling and i'll answer back and tell her not to bother calling me ever and hung up the phone. She will call and ask why i did that to her and i was totally amazed at that question, how she was so worried that i cheated on her same girl that left me for another guy, so i hung up on her again. She called back and this time i told her that im only advicing her that the guy she left me for has already cheated on her and that she will remember my words someday and hung up on her again. When she broke up with me for aparent no reason, i'll call this girl and she will answer the phone, scream at me and hang up, treated me like a fool, this is a girl that never did such to me so i knew some other man had gotten into her. I was her first love and we had been dating for a yr/half. I never cheated on her which she'd always known, but i had to tell her that so that when she wants to say our relationship was really bad to anyone she will know she is telling the truth based on me telling her i cheated rather than saying it was bad and in her heart she knows it wasnt but only saying that so that people can support her. I need you guys opinion in regards to my actions. Note: I will never take this girl back or have anything to do with her anymore.
Its been close to a month since this happened and she hasnt called/contacted me in any form and same here as i'd long gotten over her. Time is the answer to all this breakup that we are going through, TIME HEALS.
Do you all think she will ever call me again and how do u think she probably feels now since i told her i cheated? I wanna know, so pls pls pls reply. thanks
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