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Posted by Nik on 11/10/2005, 11:36 am, in reply to "Re: Pregnant...and Confused"
Oh man, I just relived the last year of my life... That was scary. I am in the exact same boat as your are! Instead of me telling you my story, let me tell you what I did. As hard as it was I left him. I knew that even though we werent together when he was with another girl, that he must not have cared about me as much as he said or he would never have done it. I didnt want to take the chance that someday he would do it again (he had a bad history with this girl). Anyways, I am now raising my 7 month old son all by myself (with the help of family and friends ofcourse) and I have never been happier. My ex doesnt see his son, nor does he ask about him and that is ok with me. I would rather not subject my son to his horrible ways. He has never taken a DNA test with the other girl (1 of them, yes there is more) yet he still gives her child support and plays dad like nothing is wrong. I dont get child support and i am ok with that. To me its dirty money anyways. It is just like saying I need him in some way. Yes I struggle everyday but it has taught me so much self respect and independence. I love my son more than anything in the world and I wouldnt trade him for anything. I have a new boyfriend now and he treats my son as if he were his own. I am happier NOW than I have ever been in my whole life. I hope this helps you make your decision. I know its hard but whatever you chose your family and friends will be with you all the way! Let me know if there is anything I can do to help! Good luck girl!
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