The fundamental problem is the unrealistic expectations of the modern woman. The causes for this change in expectations are numerous: Hollywood, the dynamics of internet dating, third wave feminism, and liberal fascism to name but a few.
From ancient times up until about 2008, your average woman met and married some guy local to her who maybe had a job and didn't beat her too much. That's all she was looking for.
But when you have a generation of young women raised on terrible Jennifer Aniston films, being brainwashed by Jews about being "poly" and "gender fluid" and you add the hugely lopsided internet dating into the mix, you get women with enormous entitlement issues thinking that the perfect man is out there if they just keep looking.
Here's how internet dating works: a hot guy who's a 10 gets 80% of the women. He's looking for a 10 but he's a horny guy and there are only so many 10s out there so he'll have sex with women who are 5s to 10s. He'll even go lower in dry times.
He will "date" these women in the sense of having sex with them after maybe getting drinks. Then he moves on to the next woman.
These women then turn around and say, "Where are all the good men?" Then they go right back and "date" another 10.
They won't go lower than a 10 because they figure they got a 10 once, they can do it again. They don't realise that that guy only had drunken sex with them that one time because he was momentarily desperate and horny. That sexy investment banker with the big muscles is not interested in having a relationship with an average looking woman who works at Argos.
These women will probably never figure this out. The process will repeat until they're 30 and used up at which point they either get some cats or lower their standards significantly. Suddenly, that fat bald guy with two kids isn't looking so bad.
So what about the guys who are 9s or lower? They're fucked. They're all fighting for the bottom 20% of women. Why would a 9 go out with a 2? Because it's that or celibacy. The top 80% of women are only interested in the 10s.
I had a young woman tell me. "I only message the 10s." This was an overweight woman with no job and poorly educated.
Realistically, as a man, if you're not at least a 5, you can forget about internet dating. Even female 1's and 2's aren't going to be interested. They're inundated with messages from 9s.
I can give 50 examples of where this all leads to. These women don't find anyone. In truly exceptional cases, they finally lower their standards and get married.
On the other hand, take a look around you. Not every guy with a girlfriend is a 10. Some are 1s. I see them in the courts. Guy with no arm, junkies, criminals, the mentally ill, almost all are unemployed. How are they getting these women? Perhaps what seems like a 1 to me is a 10 to these women. Some women like danger and getting beat and so on. It's just another unfortunate reality of women.
But a guy with a job, below average appearance, socially awkward...in the halcyon days of yore, such a guy might be a catch for a woman with realistic hopes and dreams of a fulfilling life. But in today's world of deluded women, that's really playing the dating game on hard mode. It can be done but you have a better chance playing the lottery.
What do these women bring to your life anyway? My lady friend is a net loss to my life. I won't be able to go where ever I want, do whatever I want, and I have to be responsible for clothing and feeding her. In exchange, I get what? Bad sex. I don't care about that. Even good sex wouldn't be worth all you're giving up.
In chimpanzee societies, there's one alpha male banging a harem of lady chimps. Single male chimps can go off and die.
This is the sort of society that we can expect in the future. In many ways, it's already here. There's "herbivore men" in Japan. There's the angry internet group "Men Going Their Own Way" in the West.
What other lessons can we learn from our chimpanzee brothers? Maybe throwing our own faeces will become a trend soon.
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