another friend of the family stepped up and wanted her - She is working out at a home with a 40ish woman that LOVES her. NO other pets. 2 story home and cat will be indoors only but has full run of the house. The woman went to bed and after having the cat for 3 days. Cat comes into her bedroom, purring and hops on the bed! She used to sleep with my friend so must feel OK with that. Woman LIKES cat to sleep on her bed. The cat was so mean and tempermental at my friend's home and with me but after all, she was left alone sans food and water for almost 3 months. The woman that has her now had a cat that died about a year ago (old age) man, this sounds good and I'm so happy for my friend's cat - he would insist the cat find a decent home and she has. I want to thank all of you for your support and suggestions. Apparently the cat doesn't need any medication or things to calm her down - maybe she just needed love and the ability to be with a person.