Val, Yes, right now I am dealing with things in good spirits!!! That does not always coincide with what is going on with others! That is how it goes!!! I hope Dave’s Dad does well! I am glad he is back home! Are they making sure if he and his wife are getting any supportive services they need? That can make things better, especially with their ages? Also Carlos your loved kitty, give him all the love you can...it is hard to see them get older and ill, furred ones are just as much a part of the family!! Please take care of yourself.....gentle hugs with purrssss. Xx