I try to let people be, unless what they're doing is harmful to anyone/thing, or unless they try to pull me into it...which she just did, a little.
Do you really think that she could smoke pot without her spouse suspecting? I would smell it, no matter what she smoked, even tobacco. I would think that the behavior would be noticed, too...?
Is it illegal in Texas?
Here, if someone needs it for something like health, they go to a dispensary. I don't know much about it, except that it's expensive at them if the chatter I've heard is correct.
No, you definitely don't want to get involved, I don't think, either way. Very weird encounter. Did Boy agree to take the trash monthly?
As for the gate...I would call him. You don't have to throw stones to let A know. Maybe just a quick FYI moment. He'll surely know who left it open.
When you don't occupy your home every day, people can very quickly take it over, and it's really difficult to get them out. Besides which, animals can get it. Plus, if a crime is committed, like theft, the penalty is different depending on it the place was open. It's like grand theft auto vs. joy riding.
Sheesh, what a bunch of events!
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