The first person that I ever knew who wanted to be referred to as 'they,' was someone involved with a local play many years ago. It was a strange concept for me, and I would find it difficult to do for any length of time. I found myself avoiding any reference to gender. You have a lot more at stake, though, being that you guys are related and have a relationship...

It sounds like her planning is going well, and that she has a good head on her shoulders for it. Especially that she has also talked to Randy.

I'm sure that Moss is glad to have such a good home.