they are estranged. I gave them each a friendship bracelet to give to each other and a key chain with a charm, one for loving the brother and one for loving the sister. They dutifully gave them to each other, but his attitude did not change. That's one reason I say he gives me lip service. Erin is ripe for reconciliation...she said she could never forgive Emily...but she has. Emily is anxious to have both in her life again. She asked me to give Josh her phone number, which I did. Where they are living now is not that far apart...she's in Oregon and he in Idaho, but the distance isn't great. Josh will be in town, but I suppose they will stay with Andy's momm. Randy and Josh are completely estranged.
It's a mess and it breaks my heart. None of my kids went through that....they fought ad argued, but never cut each other off.