It's wrong that you aren't getting help at this critical time. Like Rottenrot, I'm just sorry that I can't be there to help. (((Hug!)))
Oh, no, on the SS letter! Paten is right, though, mistakes are made all the time...I'm dealing with one right now, so you can't just take it at face value.
However, if it turns out that there's no way around it, maybe you can pay whatever is owed in payments?
I'm so sorry. You do not need all of this, especially at once. My prayers are with you and Fonzi, for you to get some help, and for the letter to be wrong. (((Hug!)))
Love All Life, Thank You For Posting! :)