Yes, it's hard to imagine a 'normal' again, after such a loss. Just take whatever time you need to work through it. There's no time frame.
For me, I had to put Jet's things away, it was too painful to have them out.
How are the girls? Have they looked for him, or are they at the stage that certain changes don't seem to phase them?
I'm so glad that they came over. It sounds like they were the best people to visit.
Sometimes, if there are too many people, or they are not of the same mind as you are, that can really backfire, and not make you feel better at all. (been there.) It's really nice that it was Kara and Josh.
And, nice that they could take and use the bed. It sounds like a nice one, though I wonder how it came to be described as a large?
Lol! Josh sounds like a fun guy to be around.
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