I'm glad that you'll still each be with parents, though.
We live that here, too. With Dh and I both having heart problems (Dh with an implanted defibrillator.), and ddil's parents' neighbors having chemotherapy.
Ds shops for us, ddil's parents, and mentioned neighbors. We try hard not to expose anyone in that circle, plus the baby, of course.
We make all of our choices based on that, as do the kids. So, I understand completely. It's very unselfish of all of you.
The dogs will probably be happiest without their routines being disturbed.
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