Zero offense is intended here. In what im about to say. To anyone on any side of the equation.

Its more a statement of. Something ive learned along the way, pertaining to sexuality.

Only a great sIut can appreciate another great sIut. ( I had to edit a cap "I"to replace the "L" because i gues sl-ut is an offensive word?)
My self, i really do appreciate a non jaded sIut.
The non-jaded part is what makes one great.

Infer what you will. Youre likely correct.
However. Ive always batted for the home team despite many an effort to convert this soul to switch hitting.

A step further. My only problem with switch hitting on a social level. Is -Please. Dont advertise and flaunt sexuality in the public space. The unitended consequence is it might have undo influence on a person that doesnt understand the consequence. This theory i self learned. Understand "adventurous" sexuality can lead to bizarre kink becoming the new required norm to satisfy. Ive met a girl or 2. That required something "different" to get off. Couldnt w/o it. So,Be guarding of that normal level, what you let in. It could jade your future, worse. Be a deal breaker for that 1 you fall hard for. I started young, with the advantage of an older & wiser " teacher".
Lol, it was like kindergarten. Everything i would ever need to know i learned from wendy. And. Dam she was so correct on everything. I was just shy of 13. Wendy was 19. The great sIut theory came from her.
It was california and the summer of 1974.
The back half/ middle of the sexual revolution born 50 miles west in SF. A very different time than 2026.

Boy is Wendy ever a littany of great stories. A novel all onto itself. I spent that summer hangin out with Wendy. She remained a friend until she left the area shortly before i graduated HS in 1979. Monogammy was not in her Vocabulary. The years i knew her. The most genuine and kind spirit i had ever met. To this day she remains in that place.

In the past on here. Ive often sing typed something like:
🎼I wish they all could be california girls🎶🎵
If I hear that song or type it. I think of her foremost. It wasnt/ isnt sexuality alone.
It was moreso- the spirit. The honest communicator she was. A trait that she inspired in me. That she said, she saw in me and wanted to show me about myself.

Now. Is melania a similar soul to wendy?
Wendy didnt hide her kindness or honesty.
You could see it in her from afar.
Melania? I think not. But thats just my opinion.
And. She is in the public eye so who knows.
I doubt Donald would ever tell. And. Thats also part of Wendys lessons. Kiss & tell is not a path to popularity. Only now. Nearing the end. And in this obscure space. What is it now. 50+ years later. Have i ever spoken or written about her.
Jeff Hoover, my best pal back then, always asked. I would say something like. Dude, shes like 6 years older than me. Were just friends... Sexuality. Sex. Only the insecure or immature kiss & tell. That was lesson one from my muse.

I talk too much sometimes.
Maybe someday i'll say how we met. But its so far fetched. Nobody would believe me.
And, times have changed. Opinions in the 1974 moment arent the same as the 2026 rush to judgement. This experience. I dont think it was as unusual in that time & space as it is today.
And. It went both ways. Older boys and younger girls. " The pill" changed everything.
The hottest girls in jr high were dating high school seniors and college boys back then. Many a " big for his age" 9th grade boy was picked up after school by a hot young woman in a camaro, firebird or mustang. It was a norm of the time & place. Lol, wrndy drove a chrysler imperial. I learned to drive in that car. And a few other things. My parents? They were very permissive parents. An attitude by the time i was a teen. Hes not going to listen anyway. Might as well let him take his lumps and lessons via experience.
Besides, they moved to the sf bay area. In january 1969. The winter after the summer if love. In retrospect. Looking back on it. Their lifestyle. It wasnt a coincidence. They wanted to live the cali experience. The freedoms from the oppressed hypocritical values they believed had attempted to oppress anything beyond the controling life the church desired for its community.

The wisdom of such attitudes is certainly debatable. But the debate doesnt change the culture that was present in california in the decade post summer of love. Idk if i was lucky or cursed to come of age in that space/ moment. I only know this. When in Rome. Do as a Roman.
I lived that way most of my life. Be as the culture you reside in. Adapt. It got harder upon my return to the lower 48. Oregon coast culture was dominated by meth and those battling meth in their children & other relations. Then on to Idaho, where that same meth culture prevailed with the added militia/ prepper culture. Man, what a mess I returned to after 20 year exile in Alaska!

I know this. Those cali days. It was a far far happier & prosperous culture. Yet. I think. The late 90's and then 911. America lost its possibilities. What the french call Joire de verve. Buried under layers upon layer of distrust, fear and anger.

We could use another summer of love about now.

Blessed & lucky am I.
Right or wrong. Its my personal self image.