Hello Denise,
Thank you very much for your email and your kind offer to visit the church. If you can do that and actually find the graves in question that would be terrific. I must admit that I am a little disappointed that the information I am after is so hard to come by, I would have thought that maintenance of actual church records would have been a source of pride by the incumbent vicars.
I hope your hospital treatment is nothing too serious, I am of an age where I have some experience of these things - unfortunately.
I will look into your suggestion and see if I can connect with David. It sounds as if he has the information I am looking for.
I look forward to hearing from you and I will let you know how I go.
Kind Regards,
Frank