Diane, thank you for addressing this on the message board (Daniel's Message Board).
I am among the many who've not yet arrived -- will be there Sunday -- and wish to be present for the memorial.
I would like to meet you and offer my condolences to you all personally.
You and your sibs, of course, will have your own timelines; I totally understand that. In the meantime, I'm sure you'll be sharing laughter and tears as you walk through your memories.