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37 pounds down!! Posted by Yvonne on 11/28/2018, 10:54 am Hi, everyone: Thanksgiving is over and now we are in the throes of the Christmas season. As most of you know, my husband had a massive stroke (not just a regular stroke, but one that kills most people). To that end, he has needed constant attention and care along with prayers and good thoughts. I have been a mess since it happened on June 13th. He is still in a subacute facility, can barely speak with no movement on the left side of his body. Private duty nurses' aides are with him every day of the week. I have been fighting insurance companies, disability claims, acute care facilities, physicians, therapists and the healthcare system in general. I am exhausted, tired and weary. This will be my 15th week on Cambridge (generally) and I finally decided to weigh myself AFTER Thanksgiving. Well, I am down 37 pounds and I need to lose another 60 pounds to reach my goal. It is doable. I have chosen to stick with my routine of Cambridge, walking, exercycle, calisthenics and not to weigh myself until March (hopefully, before I leave for Mardi Gras) and I'll see with all of the stress and distractions whether I can get close. I walked yesterday and was at 115 steps per minute. My fastest was on 11/18/2018 at 122 steps per minute. But, I guess the turkey weighed me down. Anyway, I am still stressed with a big stress ulcer on my upper lip that looks like a Mild Dud, but I keep going.

Re: 37 pounds down!! Posted by Karen wby on 11/29/2018, 9:58 pm, in reply to "37 pounds down!!" Hi Yvonne -- So glad to see of photo of you and your husband. He's a Good-Looking guy! I think he too is losing weight. Congratulations on the weight loss. I know you can tell it in your clothes as well as the way you look post-shower. So glad you're taking care of yourself when you're also taking such good care of your husband. Big hugs and continued prayers from Karen

Thank you! Posted by Yvonne on 11/30/2018, 3:42 pm, in reply to "Re: 37 pounds down!!" Yes! My husband is not running to the frig. This could be a blessing in disguise.

Re: 37 pounds down!! Posted by Pam T on 11/29/2018, 2:46 pm, in reply to "37 pounds down!!" Congratulations on your wonderful progress! I'm so happy for you. I love that you are doing something positive for yourself during this difficult time. It would be so easy to do the opposite. Beautiful picture and we will all continue to pray for your strength, your husbands recovery, and cheering you along in your success!

Thank you! Posted by Yvonne on 11/29/2018, 4:34 pm, in reply to "Re: 37 pounds down!!" Cambridge is the core of my positive renewal.

Re: 37 pounds down!! Posted by Cookie on 11/29/2018, 8:28 am, in reply to "37 pounds down!!" Good for you! And I’m happy your husband is coming along.

Hi Cookie! Posted by Pam T on 11/29/2018, 2:41 pm, in reply to "Re: 37 pounds down!!" How are you? It's been a while. SO nice to see you here today

Still hanging in there!! Posted by Yvonne on 12/1/2018, 4:18 pm, in reply to "Hi Cookie!" I have been fighting with disability claims and insurance companies recently. My husband is still lethargic and I believe he has Obstructive Sleep Apnea which could be a reason for his continued lethargy, but we have to go through a whole "process" to get him diagnosed and treated. It's been a challenge. My husband would always decorate the house with lights and different Christmas figures. I am trying to keep a sense of normalcy, but it is kickin' my butt.

Re: Still hanging in there!! Posted by Pam T on 12/3/2018, 9:05 am, in reply to "Still hanging in there!!" It must seem like the Twilight Zone right now for you. I imagine you will be relieved to have the Holiday season behind you this year.

You don't know the half.... Posted by Yvonne on 12/3/2018, 9:24 am, in reply to "Re: Still hanging in there!!" I am trying to put on "the good face" for everyone; however, it is very difficult once I am alone and with my own thoughts. But, I must soldier on. There is no other alternative. Believe it or not, Cambridge has kept me on the "straight and narrow" for the most part. My children noticed the significant change in my appearance at Thanksgiving. Now, my daughter, Kimberly, is redoubling her efforts to lose weight. I believe God has a reason for everything. I just keep going.

Re: 37 pounds down!! Congratulations Posted by MaryL on 11/28/2018, 12:04 pm, in reply to "37 pounds down!!" Congratulations on losing 37 pounds. Most people would never have the strength of will to do a fitness program considering all of the stress but Yvonne. Look at you! You are doing it! You deserve the very best in life! Keep goin to that goal. I know you can do it! I am with you on this leg of the journey til Christmas Eve and the back on after the holidays til March of April.

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