i told my boyfriend and he was totally fine about it. i just got drunk and told him i had a terrible secret that was impinging on my lifestyle and that he should look at this website. he read it and was absolutely lovely about it all. i think he was relieved that i didn't have AIDS or something. so now, he understands when i tell him for example, to go read the newspaper in the kitchen with loud music on. and when we visit friends, he understands when i say i HAVE TO go home. i think telling him and seeing his reaction gave me the proof that he is a caring and considerate guy, and I hope one day to travel abroad with him.