I was meant to post afew weeks ago but just to share that i used the toilet after my boyfriend stayed the night.. All i needed was just to try it once, i did my own thing in the morning but i made sure i stayed away in another room for over 2 hrs i just hang out in the bathroom area with radio on and i slowly get ready for the day, i went and he didnt know a thing.. doesnt mean im cured but i was mighty happy with myself.:D