I am not a partner of someone with shy bowel. I struggle with it myself, actually, and your post caught my attention. One of my biggest fears is that this problem will alienate someone I want to be close to, and maybe even prevent me from getting married and leading a semi-normal family life.
Would you care to elaborate on how your partner's limitation affects you? I'm interested in learning about ways to minimize the impact it has on any partner I might have. I'd like to make it as little burdensome as possible for anyone I get involved with. I've even considered having a second small residence I can retreat to when I need a brief period of privacy .. . .
any input is appreciated. Thanks!