I'm very sorry to hear that you suffer from Crohn's, as well. That sounds like a nightmare come true. Of course, shy bowel alone would have sounded awful to me before I realized I had it, so I suppose you will manage to deal with your double challenge just as we've all had to deal with the first hurdle. Thank the lord that there are medications to help you manage the Crohn's.
Best of luck in your dealings with life's challenges. Remember that you're not alone; there must be plenty of other people who suffer from both Crohn's and shy bowel. Just remember to love yourself regardless, and relish all the enjoyment you can still get out of life, despite these pesky restrictions. And the parcopresis can always improve, even if marginally!