Not sure about any other forums besides this around the web or groups on social networks like facebook. But google shy bowel or parcopresis and see what you find. Let us know if you come across anything good.

Yes, it's good to know you're not alone. In fact, one thing I've learnt is that no matter how strange your particular phobia or fear, there's guaranteed to be other people out there with exactly the same thing.

Wishing you as good a 2020 as can be Elisa. Keep on keeping on.