Some of your points remind me of old debate here over the absurdity of "Zionist feminist": one of the bizarre illustrations of Idpol selective thinking which I paraphrase:
"I am against oppression of all women... but its ok to oppress Palestinian women... as long as we oppress the men too..."
I also kept expecting you to mention this:
How women took over the military-industrial complex
...aa a somewhat bloody cherry to top-off your argument. (ironic pun intended)