All this state/country perspective is unhealthy and toxic from an anarchist perspective. War is a gift to the state when everybody starts using the 'we' as Simonyan does above and invests their identities in the national entity.

I think you are overstating it .. regarding her words. She was conflating the propaganda narrative and military perspective imo. Her view is not worth the bother to analyse it. She is simply wrong and shallow.

As far as anarchist system protecting large populace, do give me an example of where this has worked. Consider Russia? Or Iran?