Milarepa said "if you are looking for a Buddhist don't bother checking the monasteries theres never any in there"
He sang 100,000 songs and was quite connected aren't all feelings of isolation only a richety mental construction aren't they ? and while i now live alone and am infact kind of remote but since i no longer do any formal practise or even study, what be the point, I have every minute to spread what benefit I can to the beasts and twitie birds and people around me I enjoy it as I love them all very much..not a big deal but enough for a worthless waif like me. Ken says it well