Jackie do you seriously think this doesn't happen to men? On basic stuff if you aren't a minimum 6'2 male these days your dating chances are slim because you're not considered "desirable" and of course unlike weight there's absolutely nothing you can do about it. Think about that for a minute...that means the actual majority of men are considered undesirable because the average UK height is 5 foot 9. (Canada about 5 foot 10) Why? Because women objectify just as much as men ( In my view more so.) In fact one poll done actually came up with the statistic that "women find 80% of men "unattractive" or 'below average'. Let that sink in and then...move on to salaries and browse the net to find just how ridiculous female expectations are of what a prospective male mate should be earning. It's a figure in utter fantasyland.
People judge each other on superficial criterion: they always have and always will and there's nothing you can do about it.
You think shes being fat shamed so its a crime against her? Some perspective required methinks: mine says she should be locked up in jail for the rest of her natural and the key thrown away.