I go up on a message board for local news, classifieds, general help, etc. Posted about my friend's cat and I now have 2 women - one that is a cat behavior specialist/rescue worker that are in touch with me. Keep everything crossed. My dear friend will live on in his cat and I feel the cat is still young at 5 and needs a chance. Will update this board should I know more and thanks so much to all of you.