MaryL....
I bet you do not have a clue as to how many you may help with those words.
I see signs and cups and tee shirts that say "The Struggle Is Real"
It is.
It's hard.
It sucks.
But one day at a time.
We could talk about your husband and his issues and such, all day long, (and will whenever you want) but you didn't ask for that.
We are here for you.
Come to the board no matter what.
Small victory or major fall.
Perfection is not the name of this game.
Getting through each day to do better later, the very next shake.
How old is your grandson?
Have a great day, we are here.
Oh Crap, I knew I couldn't let it go.
Sometimes men, hubby dudes just want us to know that we "hear them"
Just try and say things that does let him know you do.
"I know honey"
"I hear ya honey"
"I understand honey"
(But what you say under your breath is totally acceptable too!!!!)