OMG, you don't know. I have been dealing with things like this forever. I have been over night and the next day, and I hold it in all the time until I get home. It's a good thing my body cooperates and Its a solid one that I can hold in. I really can't do it eother, thats what hurts. I sit there in agony sometime's needing to go, but won't say a word. And i have wondered before this site, if i was the only one who did this.