Hi Sad, I know what you mean. I have made up many excuses why I need to go home the next day, or day after. It is like my need to be alone, and discreet overides my need to poop. But there are times when the urge is there to go and I am much too ashamed of going. So I suffer like everyone here, but i am trying to get over it. Maybe one day I will, I hope...