you're right, but it just seems so difficult to share. when i feel like i have to go and can't control it, i often claim i have to throw up, and i leave wherever i am. i also have acid reflux problems, so i get sick to my stomach a lot and all my friends believe i actually have to vomit, not go to the bathroom. i tried to share it with my sister when she was visiting once. i asked her to leave my bedroom so i could go and she laughed at me. she thought it was so funny she almost shared it at the pub that evening with my friends... until she noticed i was turning red and was about to run from the table if she said anything. i've never tried to tell anyone since! it all seems so stupid, but it controls my life, where i go, how long i stay somewhere. it's ridiculous. thanks for your support!
and you're all too right about our politics!