Thank god I have found this site, i thought i was the only person in the world with this condition.I too have suffered with this condition all my life and to be honest it is hell. At present I am unemployed, due to redundancy, it is bliss at the moment because I have the house to myself and can go whenever I need to. However, I have been offered a job working 12 hour days,which would mean not being able to use the toilet until I returned home. And even then, if there are people at home I probably will not be able to go. I have explained to my wife, constantly, but I don't think she fully understands my condition. It is not just uncomfortable, it's also very frustrating!!!!