Oh boy - I have the same problem and I know only to well what you're talking about. If it comes to public toilets I am happy to live in Europe because in the USA, the doors of the public toilets usually start at the height of your neck and end where your knees are. There are some of these doors here in Switzerland, as well. I will never understand why they can't build a door that you can ####ing SHUT. Last summer I had to shit in the public restroom at LAX airport - wow, I almost died. I heard people moaning and saw a naked black guy in the restroom next to mee ... aaah. AWFUL. The most of you are girls - I am a man - now imagine how a girlfriend or wife would react if I told her she had to leave the appartment in order for me to defecate. I have had this problem for years, and beeing a train driver, always had to fight it. Here's some tips I can give you. It's a little bit difficult to write this in English but I hope you will understand what I mean. Basically, I have my restroom at home where I know that I'm "save" (this is really the word that suits my feelings most). In addition, I scan the public toilets at the places where I have my working breaks and know in which I can seal myself off from the public. I don't mind if these are sometimes not the cleanest places, as long as they are sealed. If I know that I will not be able to do my business at home the next day, I adjust the foods I eat so there is a possibility I won't have to go. And then I always carry an IPOD with loud heavy metal music - so I go to one of the most sealed places and listen to loud music, this prevents me from hearing anyone else. In addition I close my eyes. Try it, it works pretty well. At my parent's or grandparent's home, I choose toilets where there is a ventilator or air condition that makes a noisy sound. This gives me a bit of privacy. In addition, I always cary a small radio that I can listen to. Sometimes when I take a bath I do my thing when the water runs, then it works too. When it comes to friends houses - that's the worst thing really. I always sneak off during the day, at a restaurant or where we may go. Or I go in the night when everyone is asleep. I have another thing I do, which is really hard to describe. It seems I have light or heavy "sessions". If my stomach and bowel are alright and it's a poo that comes out and finished, I have no problem on the public toilet anymore. However for the hard and heavy minutes, I NEED to be at home. Can you believe that in ancient rome, people where sitting next to each other, talking while doing there business? Now I found this site and realised it's a problem, I may try out hypnosis. After all it can't continue like this. |
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