What a big and grand message! Sorry, grand may sound wrong but I am Scottish and it means very good. I would be delighted to help out, as I know that this must be a great chore for you. Being in control of a website, while you are also suffering is hard. I feel that you're being swallowed up by it all - and I can't blame you!
I think that, maybe, it all took off in a greater way than you had anticipated and went in many directions. Chris was absolutely right, when he said that so many postings were inconsequential but, as I said, people may just want to offload their particular problems. Ok, they may not be relevant and that doesn't help others but we have to, maybe, just ignore the other issues raised. Perhaps the problem manifests itself in different ways to different people. Agitation about the bowel problem can make us all intolerant of other issues. People really ought not to introduce unrelated problems to this website but, well, if you are feeling stressed about something, little things matter.
It did used to be better but, from the recent postings, it's looking good again.
You take care. xxx