i totaly agree and think the way you do-i often think myself into needing to go-im ok if no 1 is in there but if there is thats it and i cant go-even tho i need to -i suppose we just need to get over it and think every one goes at some point and it is natural-the less u think about it the normaly ur BMs should become and then they can just *slip out* lol peopel probably wont even no if u had a wee or No.2 hehe