Wow, that sounds rough- hope you have a medical pro working with you.
Just got the Soifer book. Hope it'll help. Also just peed at ny Gand Central station urinal! I'm paruretic too, btw, but not as bad as the bowel. Sigh Ok I did have a few beers, but still.

I'm gonna kick the crap out of this problem!
If I do, I'll write a book

Act boldly!