So what happened to the forum anyway? Was it hacked? Seems an odd hack to just delete it. It was probably a glitch of some kind. Boardhost doesn't seem the most secure site in the world.
I have access to the payment history on this forum. Fortunately, Mr Hatfield never paid for any upgrades or else I'd have his partial credit card information now. But in 2012, this forum was grandfathered into the new 2500 message plan (up from 1000) as part of a "complimantary" upgrade. In three years they couldn't correct that misspelling.
But back to Sleepyflower and the unattractive Hong Kong woman and everything, it's a shame that appearance has to be such a big thing in life. Take this "M" person. She was suggesting that she lived in London so I said we could do something. I even said not as a date. It's no different from when I said I would have hung out with Chitty had I known he was living in London.
So she said yeah, we can do something. Then she again mentioned me sending a picture to help with this internet dating profile of mine. So it's no problem. I don't mind, I just don't want it posted anywhere. So I sent a picture that I had on my profile. Then she stopped replying.
I'm not the most photogenic person in the world. But what difference does that make? If you don't want to meet up, that's fine. She doesn't even live in London as it turns out. But treating somebody like garbage just because they don't make you wet down there is disgusting. "Whoa, this guy doesn't do it for me so I'm going to pretend that he doesn't exist."
Have I stopped dating women because they were unattractive? Unfortunately, yes. Everyone has worth and value and it's not based on appearance but I don't know. I'm just too shallow when it comes to dating, I guess.
But not emailing somebody because they're too unattractive? That's a whole other level. At least with dating, there's a sexual element to it. "How am I going to get a boner with this woman who I'm not attracted to?" But who needs a boner to talk to somebody over the internet? Maybe I'm using this internet wrong.
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