Part of your family!! First thank you for taking her home to rest, which I hope she is doing!!! I know you are not. I like your attitude that the little one needs a life.....many do not think like us cat lovers. Gentle hugs.from Asheville my kitties and I! That cost is huge!! I could not even consider such but our situations are different!!! Despite that, no matter that is a lot, I hope it will be on the lower end. Pain away thoughts!!!!
Healing thoughts and prayers for your little one, you and husband along with those caring for her (vets and staff)!