I think this is the best place to ventilate. That's why I LOVE this Board. We are like-minded folks who have this teeny-weeny problem which has dominated our lives for many years (decades for me). Those around us can't or won't understand and they never will.

I am also with you about social sabotage from spouses and "friends" and co-workers. It's overwhelming. I just wish I could crawl into a hole and do this all by myself. But, I can't and THAT'S where the problem lies. To overcome these challenges every frickin' day is a herculean task and we are only human.

As you know, I am a woman of color. I am reminded all the time not to be an "ANGRY BLACK WOMAN (ABW)" despite being inundated with disrespect and exclusivity on a daily basis. I use to be nice; but people turned me into the irascible person I am today by their constant indifference to my needs and dignity. But, still I rise!

Hang in there MaryL.