Hi Mat Man, your posts are very depth about the subject. I am one of those people who thought I was the only one who avoiding pooping around others no matter what. I always waited until I was home to go. But for some odd reason, and maybe because it is so private and taboo I sometime get turned on by the thought of a female needing to go, but being to shy to say. Its like her need to be discreet can sometimes be sexual, I dont know. But I do know that I have always been really shy about pooping around anyone.