I'll be 40 years old in two days and this'milestone' has been one of my prompts to find out more about how I can change (or control) things in my life that aren't quite right. I agree aboutt the sleeping in - if I do so I always have to pay by waitng until the next day to poop and then I obsess about it all day and feel gross. Then I worry thatif the same thing happens another day in a row it will be even worse. As what usually appens when i go away on vacation. I too prefer when everyone leaves the house early and I can relax and control the amount of time I need. Make the day start late sometimes though! I'd like to harf rom you agian. We sound very similar. Good luck to you too.