I have already confided in my wife ( went ok), and plan to discuss my issues with a therapist. Maybe try hypnotherapy too. And thanks for the paxil warning - I may easily have fallen into that trap if I hadn't read about your experiences.
I hope you are doing ok with that effort and the other circumstances (you mentioned may be delaying re-release of your book - which I would love a chance to buy!)
My story is similar to most of yours. More details soon perhaps. Best of luck, stay strong.