Some chubby 18 year old who I also have on Tinder recently posted a "moment" that says "My girlfriends better than yours -- basically my girlfriend is sweeter and nicer than all the lads on here put together".

It's childish nonsense, of course. But this is somebody who didn't reply to my message. I suspect that the guys have been unkind to her are the guys with big sexy muscles who are way out of her league.

It's like that Chinese girl who complained to me about how all the guys on the site are "creeps". Untrue. It's only the ones who you're interested in because everyone's interested in them and they can afford to be jerks to women they aren't interested in.

I'm not saying that this chubby 18 year old has to look for guys twice her age. But she also doesn't have to resort to situational lesbianism. Or black guys. She had a picture of a black guy for a short while in her Instagram, I assume it's somebody she met. She can find a nice white guy her age. I mean, she's chubby, not obese.

Will a guy with big sexy muscles be interested in her? Probably not. But there are other guys out there. And I'm not saying she has to go out with a painfully unattractive guy. Just an average looking guy. After all, she's BELOW AVERAGE in appearance.

Not that appearance should be this much of a factor anyway. But it is. So that's why you get these unattractive chubby girls on the internet dating who think that they deserve hot sexy men and it inevitably leads to disappointment. You're not going to get the hot sexy men when you're in the bottom 20% of the appearance scale. Set your sights to something approaching realism and you'll have a better time with the internet dating and won't have to resort to homosexuality.