If you are a biologically a man but want to identify as a woman, fine, go for it, no one should attack you for that. However if yiu then also want, nee demand, that everyone else should recognise you as a woman and that if they don't then they are anti trans bigots and further that if gay women do not want to have sex with yiu because you are a man that those women are both transphobic and homophobic, then you can #### right off.