First of all, I do not understand why you are getting involved in a situation Which does not relate to you in either personal or professional way.
You described in detail the situation which you haven’t witnessed on the message board . you don’t know what happened and what was really said there but you gave yourself an authority to speak for the cause.
I wonder if you Have considered the fact that by doing so you are spreading rumors and this Always Causes a chain of negativity and never contributes to well being of anybody.
I think we should leave to Anax and the lady to resolve the situation.
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